As the year ends, it's time for New Year's Resolutions. One of the primary ones for many people is to have a great relationship: either to find a soul mate or to be closer to the one you have. Unfortunately, relationships can be difficult, and finding the right person can sometimes seem like an impossible dream. But, there is a solution to your love resolutions, especially if you're single: It's called the Four Magic Questions.
Over the last 20 years, I've perfected a system of love compatibility that can help you find your soul mate in four easy steps. I call it The Four Magic Questions. Based on the theory behind the most popular personality test in the world--The Myers Briggs Type Indicator--The Four Magic Questions approach teaches you how to recognize a potential soul mate by asking four simple compatibility questions.
What do you do for fun in your spare time? INTROVERT OR EXTRAVERT: Introverts like to stay home and do low-key activities like reading, thinking, watching videos, listening to music, and relaxing, while Extraverts like to go out and socialize and talk to a lot of people. HOT TIP: Research shows that Extravert women have the most problems with Introvert men in the areas of chores, finances, communication, social life, and sex.
What's your favorite movie and why do you like it? THINKER OR FEELER: Feelers love the way the movie made them feel; Thinkers enjoy the way it made them think. Thinkers and Feelers come from different planets, and have different communication styles. It's important to speak in your partner's language. The Feeler says: "Why do you have to be so critical?" The Thinker says: "Why do you have to take everything so personally?"
What would you do with $10 million? IMAGINATIVE OR PRACTICAL: Imaginative people would use the money to innovate, create, or make a difference in the world in a unique way (go to the Himalayas and meditate, write the Great American Novel, invent a nuclear powered space bicycle). Practical people would save, invest, and enjoy the sensory pleasures of life: fine dining, traveling, and exotic adventures. HOT TIP: Research shows that 70% of happily married couples are the same on this dimension (either both Imaginative or both Practical types).
If a friend invited you to Vegas, the next day (a work day) would you go? SPONTANEOUS OR STRUCTURED: The spontaneous person would say "Let's go," while the structured person would have to plan it out because of previous commitments. Structured and Spontaneous people can get along, but often have to work out a lot of issues regarding time (structured people are always on time; spontaneous people are often late), schedules, commitment, money, activities, neatness and organization, and so on.
Once you know the answers to the four magic questions, you can determine which of the 16 LoveTypes your prospective date falls under, and whether he or she is compatible with you. Here are the 16 LoveTypes, or unique romantic styles:
INFP: Idealistic Philosopher: "Love is the perfect place: quiet, peaceful and kind."
INFJ: Mystic Writer: "Love is in my mind, heart, and soul."
ENFP: Social Philosopher: "Love is mysterious, inspiring, and fun."
ENFJ: Growth Teacher: "Love is being consumed by my loved one."
INTP: Scholar: "Love is just another idea."
INTJ: Expert: "Love can be analyzed and perfected."."
ENTP: Innovator: "I invent love in my mind first."
ENTJ: General: "Love is enhanced by power, influence, and achievement."
ISFJ: Caretaker: "Love is a goal worth sacrificing for."
ISTJ: Administrator: "Love is based on duty and responsibility."
ESFJ: Dutiful Host: "Love is based on serving others."
ESTJ: Traditionalist: "Love is grounded on the rock-solid values of family, tradition, and loyalty."
ISFP: Gentle Artist: "Love is gentleness, nature, and devotion."
ISTP: Craftsperson: "Love is action."
ESFP: Performer: "Love is savoring and reveling in the passions of now."
ESTP: Wheeler-Dealer: "Love should always be exciting and stimulating."
For more information, you can go to my web site: www.lovetype.com. LoveTypes, the international bestseller, is also available on Amazon, and can give you a step-by-step plan of how to meet your ideal soul mate/LoveType.
You can have a lot of fun asking the four magic questions and meeting new people. Who knows? You just may meet the love of your life.